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First,I was really glad to find this site..it looks very supportive..I just got kicked out by my wife of 23 years the day before Thanksgiving..All I want to do is hear her voice...I call her every half hour at her job,she hangs up,and is threatening to file Stalker charges...she says she's filing for divorce as soon as she can. We've had a ton of problems throughout our relationship,including substance abuse and me hitting/abusing her while drunk..not all the time,but even one time is too many...what I would like to hear is coping strategies for dealing with the urge/desire to call,to see her,to go over there..
I know it's fresh,less than a week old,and in between periods of grief and loss,I kinda wishy/washy back and forth,between "PLEASE call me,I love you!",and "Eff her she doesnt deserve me!"..I feel like a 43 year old infant for my lack of self control...why can't I just suck it up? Any help is appreciated.
I know it's fresh,less than a week old,and in between periods of grief and loss,I kinda wishy/washy back and forth,between "PLEASE call me,I love you!",and "Eff her she doesnt deserve me!"..I feel like a 43 year old infant for my lack of self control...why can't I just suck it up? Any help is appreciated.