Ok, my first post here... In March of '09 I was diagnosed with a stage 4 form of cancer and the doctor said I had a year to live. My wife said "...there's always miracles, right?", to which the doc looked at us both and coldly and matter-of-factly replied "...honestly, no.." Sooooo, anyways here I am in 2013 cancer free, I beat it, for the love of my wife and two young boys. Now the problem, my wife went through an early mid-life crisis. We've been together since we were 18 (we're 34 now) she feels like she missed out on her life, seeing that life can be so short since my sickness, and she has developed an emotional wall from me. She says she still loves me, but just can't connect emotionally to me anymore. She says she want me to sleep with other women (she's been my only...) because she thinks we're missing out all the world has to offer. I don't really want another woman, and I feel that she is wanting me to do that so that she can move on to another man, but she she says it's not that. I'm not sure what my question is, but thanks for listening.