We were so happy when we got engaged, and are families were so excited. My Dad was over the top excited. We planned our wedding for 1 year. We wanted an elegant wedding with our close friends and family. My Dad and I looked forward to the day he would walk me down the aisle, we picked our father daughter song even. My mom was so excited, dress shopping and everything made her so happy. 4 months before our wedding we found out my Dad had brain cancer. He became more and more ill and was unable to make it. My mom was there although she had to leave right after the introductions. I only had four cousins there as far as my family. Our photographer ruined all the pictures of the family before they left, I have no pictures of my mom and me, or of us and our wedding party. The next morning I wake up and called to see how my Dad was, to find he had passed away at 7pm the day of our wedding. I look at the pictures we do have and I cry, and they are not happy tears. My question is, is it ok to do do-overs? and is it to much to ask vendors to negotiate thier rates? We spent a small fortune on our wedding. Thank you to any one who is taking thier time to read this, it is much appreciated.