A few months ago I confronted my husband about a possible PA and at least an EA. The same week, I was laid off from my job. He denied that anything was going on. Approximately 2 weeks ago, I found texts on his work phone from him to the OW saying that he missed her already, etc. on weekend night that he was supposedly doing work for a friend. Of course he says that he was just kidding, doesn't know why he said that. All a bunch of lies. The OW is a someone he sees at work every day. Luckily we don't have any children together which make this easier for me than some people. I know that I have to leave, but I feel trapped due to my lack of employment. Also for the first time in my life, I get my health insurance benefits through his company. If we separate, I lose my benefits. I'm well-educated and actively looking for employment, but some days I just get so FRUSTRATED. My husband will give me excuses for where he's been, but they are clearly lies. I wish he would just say nothing than make up these stupid stories. When I have a new job with benefits, I plan on having the talk that we should have had when all of this started...right before I leave. Just needed to vent.