I am so confused, hurt and angry. I recently found out that my husband prior to our marriage and first child, had been living a double life. I received the info from the other woman involved, she contacted me, and explained that when I had met my husband he was in a relationship with her for almost 3 years, he was working in my state(but had lived in hers) when we met he had told me he had been single for about a year, I said I was currently dating someone, but I am not committed.. We spent almost every spare minute together after we met... a few years later we married, and we had a child.. Now is when this all came out.. he was intimate with her on several occasions after being with me, but she was and still is in a different state so the intimate acts were very few, but he spoke to her on the phone very often- after work- she would be the last person he spoke to then came home and kiss me hello like nothing!!!! According to her dates, he stopped everything a moth prior to our marriage.. Their whatever you wanna call it still lasted for the first 2 years of my relationship with him!!! I want to walk away so bad... The pain and hurt is so hard, he still has to travel and these days I can't go as we have a 2 year old!! I have NO trust and I can't stop thinking of every moment that he spent with me or my family back then was a lie... I am right now 8 months pregnant. Impeccable timing.. Right! So what now?? I can't stop crying everyday I am alone, He is SO sorry but can not explain why he did it!! I am educated but have been out of work once we decided to start a family, so he's the bread winner!! I have very little saved up and he will fight me tooth and nail on support.. He does swear that was the only time he has ever strayed, and would never risk loosing our life.. BUT really what would he say? One day I think we can get through it, the next day I feel like we will never be right again.. I want my marriage and family but only if its a good healthy relationship!! I don't want to feel insecure if he can't answer my call. Is it bad that part of me wishes she never told me? Any help is greatly appreciated.