Sorry if this gets long. My husband and I have had a rocky road alot of emotional distress taken on by mostly me. This last year my husband struggled with an addiction to oxycontin pain killers and smoking pot. This almost ruined our marriage. We also would have huge disagreements of having kids, he didn't want kids (changed halfway through marriage) and I did. Well in August I had enough and told him we needed a seperation well after alot of fighting we decided to stay together with his promises to change. Well before the seperation fight I became pregnant finding out afterwards of course. Its november now and my husband has seemed to be doing good we still can't agree on having kids. I want more than one and he doesn't, he actually wants a vasectomy. He also recently hurt his back and of course got vicoden prescribed, he said don't worry I wont get bad. I just worry about well everything. Can people really change? Can he always stay this nicer person or is it a front? I would some advice or stories of previous experience.
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