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I travel alot for work (or conferences) and I notice my co workers either leave dinner early or not even join some of us for dinner. On a few occasions I knew what room number (sometimes on the same floor) and on my way to get ice or through the hallways late I notice strange people coming or going out of their room. Now these are married coworkers.

In one instance I could hear porn playing through the wall (or door) and on a few occasions could hear people screwing fairly loudly.

Does anyone ever stay in a hotel room and not engage in masturbatory activities anymore? If they're not hooking up from someone online or having strange late night guests that is.
 

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Why are you so interested in what others are doing? I dont see how this a problem.
Everyone is free to do whatever they want as long as its legal.
 

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Why are you so interested in what others are doing? I dont see how this a problem.
Everyone is free to do whatever they want as long as its legal.
Not here to debate the legality of what others are doing. It's simply an observation.
 

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Oh good grief, why do we care if HE cares?

Sure, cheating on your spouse is legal. Doesn't mean it's right.
I am actually curious, because I fail to see the pertinence of the question. :D
Why does he notice these things? Is it a voyeur thing? Does it excite him?
I have staid in many hotels but I honestly never taken the time to notice these things.
 

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I traveled for years and not once did I ever pause long enough at a coworkers hotel room door to hear anything. If anything I went another route to avoid running into them after hours all together. What I don't know won't embarrass me to sit with them at breakfast the next morning. LOL
 

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All I'm going to say is that in my past life, if I was spending the nights alone in a hotel, the maids were replacing the hand lotion on a daily basis...

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All I'm going to say is that in my past life, if I was spending the nights alone in a hotel, the maids were replacing the hand lotion on a daily basis...

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HAHAHA ok this just reminds me of a video I saw a while back LOL
 

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I am actually curious, because I fail to see the pertinence of the question. :D
Why does he notice these things? Is it a voyeur thing? Does it excite him?
I have staid in many hotels but I honestly never taken the time to notice these things.
There's nothing exciting about it. If you're in my line of work you have to observe everything around you. Again, it's not a debate over morality or legality. It was an observation.
Perhaps some people aren't getting it at home and they use travel as a reason to indulge in proclivities. Thats the pertinent dimention to this observation.
 

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Oh. And when I'm not traveling alone, it's usually a time of wild monkey sex that leaves the maids shaking their heads the next day...

Speaking of that, my GF and I are heading out of town for the weekend... Better go pack my waterproof blanket and the sex toys!

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There's nothing exciting about it. If you're in my line of work you have to observe everything around you. Again, it's not a debate over morality or legality. It was an observation.
Perhaps some people aren't getting it at home and they use travel as a reason to indulge in proclivities. Thats the pertinent dimention to this observation.
I did not mention morality. Nor I am debating.
I just find your observation curious! And quite frankly, funny!
 

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I did not mention morality. Nor I am debating.
I just find your observation curious! And quite frankly, funny!
I agree it's a funny observation but curious? not so. When in foreign countries for example you mean to tell me you don't pay closer attention to your sorroundings and the activities therein? It's one of various observations. I just found it interesting that though some people may appear happily married state-side, once they cross borders or cross the pond the intentions might be different.
I once went to the red light district just to check out what the hype was all about. Didn't know one of my guys would actually follow through....again an observation and not the legality or morality.:D
 

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I agree it's a funny observation but curious? not so. When in foreign countries for example you mean to tell me you don't pay closer attention to your sorroundings and the activities therein? It's one of various observations. I just found it interesting that though some people may appear happily married state-side, once they cross borders or cross the pond the intentions might be different.
I once went to the red light district just to check out what the hype was all about. Didn't know one of my guys would actually follow through....again an observation and not the legality or morality.:D
I do feel for their wives!! Many of them, very often, ignorant about whats going on.
I have to be honest, I have never paid much attention to people in hotels. Well, Ill keep my eyes open, next time :D
 

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I do feel for their wives!! Many of them, very often, ignorant about whats going on.
I have to be honest, I have never paid much attention to people in hotels. Well, Ill keep my eyes open, next time :D
You should, I once spoke to a hotel manager (stayed there so many times we now have a rapport) and she blatantly mentioned that hotels are places where they pretty much clean up peoples mess.....literally. Without going into details the kinds of things she mentioned they've had to deal with sometimes makes me wonder why people even bother getting married.
 
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