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I am 26yrs old, married for three years to the love of my life, and things are wonderful. Every day truly is a blessing.
Hoping some of you may be able to shed light on something though. I'm beginning to notice a change in my husband's behavior in bed. The sex is still wonderful, but there is an edge to it some nights that I don't recognize. (Hope that makes sense?)
My concern is that he has some really tough days at work (I know he does) but his personality is such that he always puts on a calm and happy face. He's a very optimistic, positive energy force!
Lately, and I'm wondering if it's on days when work has been frustrating to him, he's a bit more forward and aggressive and intense when we make love. Little things like less whispering and asking and hinting and more just being physical and repositioning me at times without warning.
Am I reading way too much into this? Is this just normal variation over time with a married couple? Worried about two things. First, is he bottling up emotions that are going to have a negative impact on him over time? Second, is he still making love to me those nights -- or is he almost using me to get even with someone from work?
This may not make sense, but thanks for trying to see through my description to the underlying concern.
Appreciate your thoughts and wisdom!!
Hoping some of you may be able to shed light on something though. I'm beginning to notice a change in my husband's behavior in bed. The sex is still wonderful, but there is an edge to it some nights that I don't recognize. (Hope that makes sense?)
My concern is that he has some really tough days at work (I know he does) but his personality is such that he always puts on a calm and happy face. He's a very optimistic, positive energy force!
Lately, and I'm wondering if it's on days when work has been frustrating to him, he's a bit more forward and aggressive and intense when we make love. Little things like less whispering and asking and hinting and more just being physical and repositioning me at times without warning.
Am I reading way too much into this? Is this just normal variation over time with a married couple? Worried about two things. First, is he bottling up emotions that are going to have a negative impact on him over time? Second, is he still making love to me those nights -- or is he almost using me to get even with someone from work?
This may not make sense, but thanks for trying to see through my description to the underlying concern.
Appreciate your thoughts and wisdom!!