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breaking up!
We are breaking up!

we are a fresh couple... started of as a long distance relationship. I came from Holland and she lives in Canada..

atm we are living in Canada... in a big house.. it is needed cause she has 4 kids... recently we invited some people to live with us (renting a room) the people are a lady and her 3 year old daughter plus a 21 year old girl...

I know my girl now for 2 and a half year.... with so many people in our house it's not easy to have a private time with my girl..

our problem is:

My behaviour and my money....

I have problems with my bank I can't seem to get that much money from my bank (ING/BMO) I need to figure out what's wrong...this has been going on for a year now...

My behaviour is because of the lack of attention from her towards me.. We have a house full of people.. 3 daughters and one son plus 3 guests and then me and my girl... that makes 9... and everyone needs there attention.. I know it's not easy for her... but all I'm asking (or try to ask.. I aproach her carefully cause I don't wanna hurt her feelings) is so now and then a spontanuous talk or a night out... just a little being together.. but she does not understand that or does not want to understand that.. or she can't do a thing about it... it's difficult with 9 people in the house...

I have sometimes my burst outs what she doesn't like.. (I understand) just because the lack of attention ...our private moments... it's like she ignore's me ...or am I wrong? I don't know... I struggle alot...

after a burst out I feel bad and she is upset and sad... I want to solve it then with a talk but she refusses and ignores me...

atm it bothers me alot that we never fought for our relationship ...if there was an argue we ignored each other...waited a few days and we were good again.. until the next argue... I wish I could turn back time... and now she is breaking up with me just like that...I have to go back to Holland starting all over again... a new house, new furniture, everything a house needs... I still have heavy stuff here in Canada what has to be transported to Holland... did I mentioned paperwork in Holland? got to find me a job aswell... solutions?
 
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