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I met a wonderful man online. We've known each other for 17 months. He is serious about me. He wants me to move in with him when I'm ready and he says he wants to be with me forever. He has no bad habits like drinking, smoking, porn, etc. He doesn't even look at other woman in a sexual way, ever. He's a really great guy with a good job. However, his time is so limited. He works 6 days a week and 12 hours a day. This gives us very little time to be together. We live about 1 1/2 hours away by car from each other. I don't have a car because I live in the city where a car is not needed. He lives in the country so he has a car. In the beginning we spent more time together, but now we don't.
On top of work schedule he has his hobbies which I feel take away even more time. I keep telling him that it's ok to have hobbies, but he should spend less time on them because now he is in a relationship and we need to spend time as a couple. Some of his hobbies require him to go away for weekends and thereby making our time even more limited.
I know he values our relationship, but I feel we are missing the quality time needed. Am I being too selfish or should I give him his space? I know he works alot and likes to take some of his spare time to do his hobbies which he should, but sometimes I feel he has too much on his plate for me and our time is very limited.
On top of work schedule he has his hobbies which I feel take away even more time. I keep telling him that it's ok to have hobbies, but he should spend less time on them because now he is in a relationship and we need to spend time as a couple. Some of his hobbies require him to go away for weekends and thereby making our time even more limited.
I know he values our relationship, but I feel we are missing the quality time needed. Am I being too selfish or should I give him his space? I know he works alot and likes to take some of his spare time to do his hobbies which he should, but sometimes I feel he has too much on his plate for me and our time is very limited.