LOL, it's true my Latino friends are awesome dancers. I love it when they SING while we're dancing. But my best dance partners in Argentine Tango are American Caucasian (my instructor) and half-Asian. My Cubano friend who dances Argentine Tango is caliente at best. I know a Pole who knows the Mongolian Waltz, he's a real jerk, recovered alcoholic, massive tattoos and on the short side, but at that dance who cares, he's expert and you need to be bull-headed for that one. My buddy was learning to dance because he did a different sport every night...and he met me. Yep, he got laid, just a few days before his massive brain hemorrhage. At least he was happy when he almost died. But he was really happy and cute when he danced, so who cares why he was doing it. Straight up Caucasian guy, middle aged, building contractor, definitely not my type, lol. I do have another Cubano friend who loves to dance. But he's an artist as well, and likes to get out and socialize, and also teaches. I'll admit I'm half Cuban. For me not to dance is like starvation. I tried and couldn't do it.Any guy who genuinely likes to dance is gay or latino. I honestly believe that. There is the rare rare guy who is an awesome dancer from practicing, but he did that to impress people (breakdancing, house, etc) or to get attract women and get female company... and a lot of those guys are open or closet fags/bi.
Straight American guys will dance to get LAID... end of story. I practiced some waltz type steps off youtube with my wife before our reception. We go out to the salsa club or disco bar occasionally. I'm doing it to get laid and to meet her needs by showing interest in stuff she likes... just like she "enjoys" football or baseball games with me from time to time. JMO
I did a LOT of ballroom dancing in college. Your comments have caused me to reminisce about all those hours on the dance floor.I've been dancing my whole life, many different types of dance, including ballroom. I love it!
Learning ANY kind of lead-follow dance can help a couple to truly understand the lead-follow dynamic in a male-female relationship. If ballroom isn't your thing (ballroom = waltz, foxtrot, rumba and a few others), then go for salsa, east coast swing or west coast swing (two entirely different dances with different music), or Argentine tango.