First, there’s anecdotal evidence that the boys club executive team generally doesn’t listen to women. Her ideas have put into action when repeated by male colleagues. That said, I agree that I need to take a stand in order to gain some balance in the power dynamic.I’d have a serious problem with your wife if she worked for me and if her attitude at work matches her attitude at home then I’m not surprised she’s not being heard. She sounds like the proverbial ball buster.
You don’t realise it but she’s grinding you down. It’s time for you to take a stand here because otherwise you are going to end up with serious mental health issues.