My husband and I have been married 2 years. We dated 2 years prior to getting married. He's never been the "how was YOUR day?", "what do YOU think of that movie?", "whats going on in YOUR mind?" kind of guy. He assumes if I think it I should just say it without needing to be asked, even tho I ask him about his day, ideas, wants, needs, etc. He never reads my emails, never checks my FB page, it makes me feel unimportant, invisible and well.. pathetic for NEEDING his attention. We've discussed it and he always says he's sorry, he's lazy, he's not being an attentive husband.. ok.. so.. he'll "try" for a couple days then it's back to the same old thing. It also makes me feel like crap that my husband needs to TRY to be interested in me!! I love him, and I know he loves me, but I'm beginning to wonder if this isn't the start of the end. Am I missing something? I realize I have only a few friends, I don't have a lot going on in my life right now, so maybe I'm counting on him too much to show me attention? He doesn't seem to "need" any sort of attention from me. As long as he knows I love him and I'm happy, he really wouldn't be troubled if we rarely saw each other or never spoke and only had sex once every 3 months. I don't know.. I'd appreciate any thoughts from men and women.