Not sure where to post this. I just wanted to suggest a book. It's not a marriage or relationship type book , although Divorce Remedy is good, as are many others. I've just been reading Steering by Starlight by Martha Beck and I highly recommend her books if you feel you are not living the life you want. Her other books are very good too, Finding Your Way in a Wild New World, and Finding your Own North Star. She's a life coach and I find her very inspiring. I'm at a real crossroads in my life and it's been a big help.