At first pretty shocked at the question out of the blue, cant get to vocal in the middle of a restaurant. I asked lots of questions and did my best to assure her she was wrong. I agreed to go to marriage counseling since we needed it anyway (dead sex life for a long time). She thought it would give me an opportunity confess. It dragged out for months where I eventually found out she was in at least an EA (did know what one was back then). At that point I shut down the counseling and the entire discussion about my supposed affair. Told her if she wanted to end the marriage fine, but I was not discussing the affair that never happened any longer.How did you respond?
The discussion stopped we had some hysterical bonding for a while and we moved on. I was not a reader here then and not wise enough to dig into her EA further than putting an end to it. She claimed to be getting anonymous info about my non affair which I believe was her EA partner and I have some proof of. She refused to admit it was him.