I stumbled into your other thread. I am curious if you have kids involved in this? I think some of your concerns are rather warranted given the circumstances and that he lied about it. It's doesn't sound like you put your foot down about it, which is something that needs changed. I would flat walk out the door over that alone!Thanks for your advice, I know there is something wrong with me when it comes to drinking, and I'm going to change that for myself and my marriage. I really appreciate your words and taking the time to read me.