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So here is my situation. I recently (2 months ago) had all my teeth pulled and got dentures. While at first I was unable to please my fiancée due to pain, I'm slowing working back up to it. My problem is 2 things... 1. I honestly can not tell if I'm hurting him with the denture,(he won't say as to not hurt my feeligs) and 2. I feel weird giving him one without them.

Kissing is even funny right now, just feels so different. If they are glued in good, then we have to take a break so I can get them out to start on the pleasing of him.

He doesn't complain when I please him without them, he seems to rather enjoy it, but to me I just feel funny. How do I get past this? What can I do to feel better about the" gum jobs" and also keep the excitement going when we have to stop so I can remove dentures? Any advice would be wonderful. Thanks
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I think it's just going to take a while to get adjusted. Obviously wearing a denture is not the ideal so I imagine you feel awkward about things since it's so new.I think you and your partner need to have an open discussion about it even if it's difficult for you to do so.

I've also heard BJ without them is the best ever.
 

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He doesn't complain lol. He also makes much more noise now. I guess maybe it is a self image I can not get over. I still haven't done this with the lights on. We have a VERY open relationship. Nothing is off the plate. I've asked him about hurting him and while he says he enjoys it alot, he has also mentioned that I have scrapped him with them. He has not said I've hurt him though. Guess this just means lots of practice haha ;-)
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I am sure lots more practice will not bother him. It is probably just something that you are going to have to get adjusted to...wether that be leave them in or take them out.

I have never received one without, like workingonme...I guess I will just have to wait and find out!
 

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It's a very different feeling. All that extra room and a bonus is no biting or scratching him with teeth. Guess my biggest thing is the the way I look without them. He hasn't seen me without them in. I worry it won't be sexy.
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Any one got any ideas how I can get over my worry about how I look doing it?
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So here is my situation. I recently (2 months ago) had all my teeth pulled and got dentures. While at first I was unable to please my fiancée due to pain, I'm slowing working back up to it. My problem is 2 things... 1. I honestly can not tell if I'm hurting him with the denture,(he won't say as to not hurt my feeligs) and 2. I feel weird giving him one without them.

Kissing is even funny right now, just feels so different. If they are glued in good, then we have to take a break so I can get them out to start on the pleasing of him.

He doesn't complain when I please him without them, he seems to rather enjoy it, but to me I just feel funny. How do I get past this? What can I do to feel better about the" gum jobs" and also keep the excitement going when we have to stop so I can remove dentures? Any advice would be wonderful. Thanks
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While I certainly would not wish it on anyone to lose their teeth, the idea of a "gum job" actually sounds more appealing to me than a blow job with either real or fake teeth. If you were my wife, I would probably prefer that you just left the dentures out altogether. I haven't had the actual experience of kissing anyone without teeth, but the idea doesn't bother me. It sounds to me like your husband has the same reaction I do to your current condition: blow jobs are better, and kissing is not a problem.

The thing that I always have found to be a problem for me was anything that caused an interruption in the middle of sex. Like back when pregnancy was still a possibility, and my wife would have to get out of bed to go insert a contraceptive. Or now that she has gone through menopause and sometimes tries to apply some sort of lube (without which she's too dry for insertion). Forget it! I'd rather just continue with what we're doing.

So if your husband is like me, he would probably prefer that you just take the dentures out before you get started, and just leave them out for the duration so you don't interrupt the mood. It sure sounds like the whole thing is an issue for you, not for him.
 

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if you boyfriend loves you, the few times you don't have your teeth in won't bother him(yes mine wears dentures) and yes there's a vast difference in BJ's,100x's better.
 

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Thanks, I did some talking with him again and as you said Carpe, he isn't bothered by them being out. I think if given some reassuring words I could do the "gummers" (thanks Fiddlehead) without thought.
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Thanks, I did some talking with him again and as you said Carpe, he isn't bothered by them being out. I think if given some reassuring words I could do the "gummers" (thanks Fiddlehead) without thought.
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Re-reading your posts, I think your husband is just wondering. How he got so lucky. He not only accepts you as you are, he's turned on. Enjoy.
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His ex wife never gave him blow jobs said it was nasty, I, on the other hand love doing this for him. We were hs sweethearts then broke up, went on married others then after our divorces found each other again. I love him more then anything, and just want him to finally like myself be happy. Every one has a self image, I know he loves me and is grateful for what I do for him, just have to let myself go and enjoy without the thought of him finding me "unsexy" with my teeth out. (ex husband beat me and lost most of my teeth because of that) The dentures were a way if letting me eat better and also having more confidence. But the image of myself without them to me is unappealing. I guess as long as he is happy I should be too. :)
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I never thought I would be giving " gummers" ever. Lol not sure if he was toothless if oral on myself would be any different then it is now. But...... If the time ever comes I'm so discussing it here lol
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Hubbyfetish, he said to tell you... Thank you lol been practicing alot and he is throughly enjoying it. Lol
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In time, it will feel natural.
My husband mentioned a while ago that he can't wait til I lose my teeth because he just thinks it will be incredible. At the time, I felt kind of weird about it, but reading all these posts totally makes me feel differently---yeah, it'll be something to look forward to!
Also, you can feel good that you're doing something for him that nobody else has done for him. That's pretty special! And, I bet, if his friends know, they'd be pretty darn jealous of the ecstatic levels of pleasure he is experiencing with you post-teeth.
Best of luck!
 

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lol, all our friends know and if bit he makes it known. That is a bit embarrassing. I never thought as I'm the only one who had given him this. Just not something you think about lol. I'm hoping it will feel natural eventually I didn't expect to be perfect after having this done but then I didnt realize how different it would be.
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In time, it will feel natural.
My husband mentioned a while ago that he can't wait til I lose my teeth because he just thinks it will be incredible. At the time, I felt kind of weird about it, but reading all these posts totally makes me feel differently---yeah, it'll be something to look forward to!
Also, you can feel good that you're doing something for him that nobody else has done for him. That's pretty special! And, I bet, if his friends know, they'd be pretty darn jealous of the ecstatic levels of pleasure he is experiencing with you post-teeth.
Best of luck!
Yeah, since I first saw this thread the other day, I've also been feeling like I'm looking forward to my wife losing her teeth.
 
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