Why does his family not like you?
So much drama and you aren't even married yet. You may want to rethink your relationship with your boyfriend. It won't be any better after marriage. Also, making him choose between you and his family won't solve any problems either--only create new ones.
My daughter and her boyfriend recently solved a similar problem. My daughter got tired of the family drama at the boyfriend's house. She left and told her boyfriend to never call her again. She told me she couldn't envision herself playing a role in the ******* drama for the next 40+ years. You may want to ask yourself that question.
So much drama and you aren't even married yet. You may want to rethink your relationship with your boyfriend. It won't be any better after marriage. Also, making him choose between you and his family won't solve any problems either--only create new ones.
My daughter and her boyfriend recently solved a similar problem. My daughter got tired of the family drama at the boyfriend's house. She left and told her boyfriend to never call her again. She told me she couldn't envision herself playing a role in the ******* drama for the next 40+ years. You may want to ask yourself that question.