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well bfs family doesnt like me, he is super close with them and since hes been dating me has spent more of his time with me...we are 28 btw..not hs kids. its always been his choice if he wants to just stay home with me.....his and sister and i got into an arguement and it was my fault...i apologized but she wont accept it....so i told my bf while he was at work that i really needed him to lean on today and i needed to talk to him after work but not to worry about me...he tells me he will be late....i think he had to work over....nope he was over at his sisters house for 2 hours consouling his sister....while i waited at home in tears hoping hed walk through the door, so when i asked why didnt u come to me when i needed u...he said...my family needed me and i put family first, your not my wife yet, and it crushed me....even if he had done wrong to someone i knew id stand by him....not by the wrong he did...and especially if he apologized and did his best to mend things.....to me even tho were not married...he is my family too.....i dont know what to think....my heart aches...and now i have to go lay in bed next to someone that thinks im 2nd until he puts a ring on my finger.....am i wrong in all of this???? help me