[notmyjamie]

I personally have this fear of ladies who are single, divorced (whatever) and who have this really great sex drive.

Can they be trusted to remain in any long term relationship?

Be careful what you ask for.

I fully expect to be pounded for this statement.


Nemesis-

I have a good sex drive. My number of lifetime partners is well below the average and I’ve never cheated on anybody. Not even when my gay exH refused me for over 6 years.

Been with my BF now for 2 1/2 years…haven’t cheated…and have no plans to do so. If, for some reason, he stops providing what I need (love, attention, companionship, and yes, sex) I will break it off before I go find someone else…just like I did with my now exH. Thankfully. I don’t see that happening.

 

[LisaDiane]

I personally have this fear of ladies who are single, divorced (whatever) and who have this really great sex drive.

Can they be trusted to remain in any long term relationship?

Be careful what you ask for.

I fully expect to be pounded for this statement.


Nemesis-

I have a good sex drive. My number of lifetime partners is well below the average and I’ve never cheated on anybody. Not even when my gay exH refused me for over 6 years.

Been with my BF now for 2 1/2 years…haven’t cheated…and have no plans to do so. If, for some reason, he stops providing what I need (love, attention, companionship, and yes, sex) I will break it off before I go find someone else…just like I did with my now exH. Thankfully. I don’t see that happening.

I also have a high sex drive, but it's not for ANY guy...I can only think about and desire ONE guy at a time. I've always been that way. And even when my STBX wasn't sexually satisfying for me, I didn't think of other men. Even when guys flirted with me or hit on me, it made me sad (not excited), because I would wonder why my STBX didn't want me like those men seemed to.

My high drive and desire for sex was focused on HIM, and I couldn't imagine sex with anyone else.

 

[Livvie]

I personally have this fear of ladies who are single, divorced (whatever) and who have this really great sex drive.

Can they be trusted to remain in any long term relationship?

Be careful what you ask for.

I fully expect to be pounded for this statement.


Nemesis-

I don't understand this at all. Like, it makes no logical sense.

Unless a woman is cheating, ALL women are single until they find a partner to have a relationship with. Right?

Why would a man want to find and subsequently partner with in a relationship or marriage a single woman with a LOW sex drive???? Unless of course he didn't have a sex drive and is searching for a sexless relationship.

So, ????? What?

 

[notmyjamie]

I also have a high sex drive, but it's not for ANY guy...I can only think about and desire ONE guy at a time. I've always been that way. And even when my STBX wasn't sexually satisfying for me, I didn't think of other men. Even when guys flirted with me or hit on me, it made me sad (not excited), because I would wonder why my STBX didn't want me like those men seemed to.

My high drive and desire for sex was focused on HIM, and I couldn't imagine sex with anyone else.

Exactly!!!!

I also wonder…is a man with a high sex drive also a bad choice for a relationship?

 

[A18S37K14H18]

OP,

I just read your thread and I'm sorry how it all went down and I'm happy that you made lemonade out of lemons.

GREAT job on your kids. You really stepped up to the plate for them and you should be proud.

Just curious whether you know what happened to your ex-wife's boss and his wife.

Did she ever divorce him?

 

[Divinely Favored]

I also have a high sex drive, but it's not for ANY guy...I can only think about and desire ONE guy at a time. I've always been that way. And even when my STBX wasn't sexually satisfying for me, I didn't think of other men. Even when guys flirted with me or hit on me, it made me sad (not excited), because I would wonder why my STBX didn't want me like those men seemed to.

My high drive and desire for sex was focused on HIM, and I couldn't imagine sex with anyone else.

Exactly..I am also a dance with the one you brought. Once had a GF(34) try to loan me(23) to her bestie(35) for the night. Back from the club and GF's BFF(tall brunette, nurse) walked in the bedroom in her black teddy and stockings and asked what I thought about sleeping in her room tonight, with GFs consent. I declined as I am a one woman man.....when I'm done I'm done....If another is with a girl after me, I will never go back to her.

 

[Joyceimma]

Hmmm.... this is touching

 

[Rob_1]

I declined as I am a one woman man.....when I'm done I'm done....If another is with a girl after me, I will never go back to her.

I have actually experienced, and done exactly as you in the two situations exposed above. Same motto.