[LisaDiane]

I personally have this fear of ladies who are single, divorced (whatever) and who have this really great sex drive.

Can they be trusted to remain in any long term relationship?

Be careful what you ask for.

I fully expect to be pounded for this statement.


Nemesis-

I have a good sex drive. My number of lifetime partners is well below the average and I’ve never cheated on anybody. Not even when my gay exH refused me for over 6 years.

Been with my BF now for 2 1/2 years…haven’t cheated…and have no plans to do so. If, for some reason, he stops providing what I need (love, attention, companionship, and yes, sex) I will break it off before I go find someone else…just like I did with my now exH. Thankfully. I don’t see that happening.

I also have a high sex drive, but it's not for ANY guy...I can only think about and desire ONE guy at a time. I've always been that way. And even when my STBX wasn't sexually satisfying for me, I didn't think of other men. Even when guys flirted with me or hit on me, it made me sad (not excited), because I would wonder why my STBX didn't want me like those men seemed to.

My high drive and desire for sex was focused on HIM, and I couldn't imagine sex with anyone else.