you may thik he is a coward he still gt to sleep with your wife and you havent done anything who is the real coward !!! you have kept your cheating wife the question is why ?? simple you are weak and the coward !!!At this stage I have protected my assets and companies in case I decide to walk away.As I stated I have a newborn baby boy,3 and 5 year old daughters to protect and put first,I don't care what anyone says,I went through a divorce as a child and it does mess up any child.
Im no chump or spineless man to want to try everything to avoid my kids having to deal with a stepfamily.Say what you will,a man does not care the same for children that are not his own.
However should I discover anything more she omitted or lied about in the future I will walk away immediately,she knows this
And the truth always finds a way to come out,like me stumbling on a text years later.
So for now I will give it a bit more time,if my baby boy is a toddler and I feel the same I will probably leave her anyway.
Someone mentioned how do I look her friends in the eyes..I don't,everyone I know she bad mouthed me to and was to cowardly to either tell me or believed it has been removed from my life.Her family as well..
Her family ,including my 3 brother in laws showed me they are not worth my loyalty and support.Believe me I have financially helped them over the years,I supported her mother and was always there when they needed someone.
I guess loyalty and family mean more to me than most
So I will be fine and will definitely not be hurt by my wife again,she cant break something that does not exists right.Im the dark of night it sucks as I stare at the ceiling pissed off many nights,but the sun always rises
One thing I never mentioned is the coward of a affair partner knew that time who I was ,he risked much, those years I would have not reacted well towards him if I found out.
Since the day I found the text he as gone underground,he deleted his social media etc.
He does not know some of his wife's friends are old dive mates of mine and they told me he is avoiding visiting Africa…so a coward that is scared of a man whose marriage he meddled in.
i dont mean to be hard on you but that is how you are behaving. stop it put your foot down leave the situaton let the other mans wife know let there world blow up as you navigate yours as you heal .. And remener we are all here to helpp you along .. but you must make the first move no more excuses no more deflecating blame to the other man . it was your wife who said the vows to you not him !! use that energy to live your cheating wife simple !!