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Please tell me honestly, this question is VERY curious to me...
Do you enjoy it or are you even turned on by your husband asking for sex?
Or do you prefer some flirting/teasing to get you in the mood and more spontaneousness?
For my wife, me asking for sex is an instant turn off for her. Turning her off also makes her back off and then go off at me for not being affectionate with her (not turning her on = not being affectionate in her books), but it seems asking is common in many marriages.
I've known my wife for 7 years now, together for 6, married for 4, and never had to ask for sex. If anything I order her around if I really need her lol
Do you enjoy it or are you even turned on by your husband asking for sex?
Or do you prefer some flirting/teasing to get you in the mood and more spontaneousness?
For my wife, me asking for sex is an instant turn off for her. Turning her off also makes her back off and then go off at me for not being affectionate with her (not turning her on = not being affectionate in her books), but it seems asking is common in many marriages.
I've known my wife for 7 years now, together for 6, married for 4, and never had to ask for sex. If anything I order her around if I really need her lol