It's definitely something to remember as we pursue our single lives... I hold places in my schedule/heart for people but damn it.... it's me time!I'm going to print this out and put it where I will see it. I like a lot of those.
One of my favorites:
If someone wants to be a part of your life, they’ll make an effort to be in it. So don’t bother reserving a space in your heart for someone who doesn’t make an effort to stay.
His loss and great attitude on your part.It's good to know there are others who go through the same feelings.
Sooooo, I ended up coming home in the middle of the night.
It turns out my boyfriend stopped being attracted to me and decided he didn't love me but decided NOT TO TELL ME because he 'liked my company' and 'didn't want to hurt my feelings.'
He wanted to be friends!
But I lost all respect for him.
Who uses someone that way?
I was disgusted.
I got home not 1/2 hour later and he was on Match and had already de-friended me.
He's a bit of a narcissist so I suspect will go through the cycle again. He also struggles with depression and I think he might be addicted to weed.
I can do better.
Reminding myself that dating is a process.
I really do want a relationship and a family life.
So will keep trying.
Glad I was able to get the truth out of him, did not lose my cool.
I actually enjoyed the slow drive home under a nearly full moon, at 2 a.m. It reminded me that the universe is a lovely place and my little piece of it doesn't have to include such drama. It's a choice.
Thanks. I felt better as soon as I left. Some things just feel wrong, and are wrong. He's a bit more f*cked up than I'd really care to talk about. I ought to have ended it before, but was entertaining some small delusions. The bottom line is that it really does matter how you spend your time. If you don't really feel for someone, do the right thing, and let that person have their life to themselves...and spend your time alone and suck it up already!His loss and great attitude on your part.
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Sedatives are wonderful things.Wow, HNU, you are handling that with such grace. That's where I want to be someday. Sorry that it turned out that way, though. Well -- actually, I guess considering how he is, it turned out the best for you after all.