Say a h tells his w she is beautiful many times in person and via texts and emails but she never tells him he is handsome. She says love you back but never he has handsome. This may sound childish and stupid but should the husband be concerned? He has always been considered attractive. What gives? Mind you, she was never the type to go talking that way even when they were dating. She only said it a hand full of times she they have known each others. But it stupid for the h to wonder what's up?