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Well, I stand corrected on what I posted in this thread the other day.
I met a man who I fell instantly in love/lust with today based primarily on appearance alone. It had nothing to do with muscles though. Looks wise he just had everything I love in a guy and he was definitely fit but just toned and not overly muscly. He was with his 3 little kids. If a man can make me feel a zing in my p*ssy then you know this is an attractive man, ok? Yes, I actually felt something between my legs looking at this guy which is almost impossible for me normally.
I met a man who I fell instantly in love/lust with today based primarily on appearance alone. It had nothing to do with muscles though. Looks wise he just had everything I love in a guy and he was definitely fit but just toned and not overly muscly. He was with his 3 little kids. If a man can make me feel a zing in my p*ssy then you know this is an attractive man, ok? Yes, I actually felt something between my legs looking at this guy which is almost impossible for me normally.
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Here I thought you were front row at all the gay strip reviews every Friday night! Oh maybe you are…as one of the dancers 😂
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He didn’t have his pants rolled up at the ankles did he?
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Not necessarily.
If it’s bad because of a lack of experience, technique, practice, familiarity with each other‘s preferences- sure.
If it’s bad because of a lack of motivation, interest, attraction - not so much.
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My bet is largely putting on an act, feigning sexual arousal, partly because "it's a party so let's get into the spirit of it and let loose" and partly because of social expectations to overtly display appreciation in sexual terms.
But no, merely seeing the hottest male specimen does not arouse me in the slightest. We need to go several levels beyond just the visual for that to happen.
Many is the key word. But but all.
And, many DO get turned on by seeing a man naked.
I do.
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Me either. Most of the pretty ones are gay, many are man-hoes I wouldnt touch with another woman's goodies.,
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I know of a guy just like this, he is gods gift to women , sadly guys like this have been out with Mary, and Lesa and Susie and everybody
been gods gift he gets around a lot and women Q up for him ,
he knows how to charm the birds off the trees and when he has them charmed he knows how when and what he need to do ,
one woman said about him that he kissed her and just with the stroke of his hand she had the fastest O ever so fast that she felt like a 16 year old boy with premature ejaculation , she said he should open a school or clinic for men that are so bad they think they have a stone barker, and women that have a hard time getting to the end .
I think sex is not talked about in the right way to young people , even today in the schools sex ed has little to do with sex ed
Most men resort to porn as sex ed and many girls learn from the guys that think they know all from the porn . coupled with the fact that up bringing has thought kids with centuries that sex is dirty,
A lot of the words used around sex are looked on as swore words , if I USE ANY HERE THEY EVEN GET BLANKED because they offend
from an early age we say " my privet part " or we give it a list of names that are far from the right name ,
Not to talk of the English speaking world where most English speakers use the wrong word for the woman's privet area the vagina instead of Vulva
So you think you know your vagina
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I'd rather have no sex than bad sex.
Self pleasuring is a much better option than disappointment with a partner. IMO
These are wise words! Unfortunately, modern communication has changed nothing, certainly not in the US where this education is essentially non-existent. With the internet what is prevalent is various flavors of porn. Even here on TAM, there are debates about female vs male sexuality. Like discussing whether females are aroused by seeing a naked male. So even adults can't agree on the basics like how can a husband romance his wife. The guy you mentioned learned things correctly somehow. My guess would be he was tutored as a teenager by an older woman in the "ways of women". Most young men don't receive that education, just a bunch of misinformation from their friends who are just as clueless as they are. Add in the girls socialized and taught that sex is dirty, oral sex especially so, masturbation is evil, and there is ideal recipe for all sorts of unhappiness when they marry someone. End up with a woman who thinks oral is nasty and a man who thinks women are all like porn actresses.
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NO, I CAN hardly wait for this from the man I'm hoping comes along next. hoping it's the one I'm talking to now but? He's FAR FAR away and I have no idea. Fingers crossed and prayers prayed!
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No sex, leave, say nothing, don't call
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Bad sex sucks for sure, but I'd still choose it over no sex. Besides, there is no way improvements wouldn't come if I had anything to say about it, and no improvements can happen without more sex. Fortunately it's not a choice I really have to make lol
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I'm with you. Got a dose of bad sex last night. Rather take care of myself than go through that again.
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I’d say, when you’re better off detaching and moving on, any sex with your partner is a potential setback.
It’s harder to smoke hopium if you’re not striking the match.
It’s harder to smoke hopium if you’re not striking the match.
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