I can't help but quote my Dad when I was 13 years old. He spent 2 years in South Pacific combat during WW2. "Even 'bad' sex is pretty wonderful". He also said there were no ugly women, just some less beautiful than others. Sorry for the detour.
Mrs. Nail has no problem at all letting me know when she is tired, more interested in her book, ill, more interested in her book, sad, more interested in her book, or whatever, usually more interested in a book. And I'm pretty sure she has made the right choice over boring sex.I guess if you always have to have your other half be madly keen and enthusiastic or you aren't interested, then don't bother. There will be times when one or both just feel exhausted, ill, tired, sad or whatever. If its a constant month in month out year in year out thing, then something is clearly very wrong in the relationship.
Worse. Even if I orgasm from the bad sex it's not satisfying and I am left still physically frustrated only with added mental and emotional unhappiness to sweeten the suck.In your opinion is bad\boring sex just as bad as no sex?
If my husband is really tired from working or just isn't feeling well and is willing, but not going to be into it, I decline. I appreciate the offer, and will let him know that, but I'd rather wait until he's able to be into it.If the uninterested person is going through some temporary high stresses causing their lack of enthusiasm then no the fact they are still making themselves available should appreciated.
Ouch ouch and ouchSometimes I think she does it just so she can say "we have sex all the time" (1-2x a week average ) but with the least amount of effort she can muster, hoping ill stop initiating. The absolute worst part.... having the solid 10 at gym hit on you constantly, knowing there's nothing you can do.
Of course there is something you can do: file for divorce and then accept the 10's advances.Sometimes I think she does it just so she can say "we have sex all the time" (1-2x a week average ) but with the least amount of effort she can muster, hoping ill stop initiating. The absolute worst part.... having the solid 10 at gym hit on you constantly, knowing there's nothing you can do.
Man, when I was dating, there was a LOT of lazy sex by men who liked to just lay back and wait.....But now, if you're married, I'd expect a certain amount of lazy but otherwise loving relaxing sex on both sides. Every run can't be a marathon, you know.In your opinion is bad\boring sex just as bad as no sex?
By bad I mean one partner isn't interested...no position change...no initiating...just going through the motions to get it done.
Is that just as bad as not having sex at all?