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... cause it was a little too much. Some stories, are a bit too depressing, others... hit too close to home. I found myself sympathizing for both me and women on these boards.
I felt sorry, for the dudes like myself, who loved their wives with all their hearts, but just couldn't get them to make love to them as ofter as they wanted to.
I felt sorry for the women in the same boat, but also for the women who were constantly getting taken advantage by loser type dudes. Sometimes, in both cases the victim can take part of the blame, especially when the cycle's been repeating so many times, but its just not easy so easy to run away as we think.
Me personally? Me and my wife still love each other, but our s#x lift to me... still suffers. We still only go about once every 10 days or so. I've tried everything... to the point now, i really don't try at all. I don't love her any less, just not in the mood to be the constant initiator, even if it rewards me with more sex. I'm depressed at times, cause i try to convince myself that life is too shirt, and i need to get it, however way i can get it, especially when reading on here that guys can't get it no matter how hard they try. But, sometimes its just difficult. Contemplating right now, if i should chase after it tonight, or just hang downstairs so long, till she goes to sleep and not be bothered at all.
I felt sorry, for the dudes like myself, who loved their wives with all their hearts, but just couldn't get them to make love to them as ofter as they wanted to.
I felt sorry for the women in the same boat, but also for the women who were constantly getting taken advantage by loser type dudes. Sometimes, in both cases the victim can take part of the blame, especially when the cycle's been repeating so many times, but its just not easy so easy to run away as we think.
Me personally? Me and my wife still love each other, but our s#x lift to me... still suffers. We still only go about once every 10 days or so. I've tried everything... to the point now, i really don't try at all. I don't love her any less, just not in the mood to be the constant initiator, even if it rewards me with more sex. I'm depressed at times, cause i try to convince myself that life is too shirt, and i need to get it, however way i can get it, especially when reading on here that guys can't get it no matter how hard they try. But, sometimes its just difficult. Contemplating right now, if i should chase after it tonight, or just hang downstairs so long, till she goes to sleep and not be bothered at all.