Are you looking for suggestions?
I know exactly what you mean. For me and my ex, birth control (lack of) was a barrier, if I didn't initiate during the safe window it would be weeks before I'd want to initiate again... I believe I remember you saying you want children (?) so vasectomy is not on your radar I guess. Other than condoms any kind of b.c. would have to fall to her, and if that is a moodkiller I hope she is willing to consider it even in dry spells so that when it gets hot there is nothing to stop you two from being spontaneous some more.Thanks Lon. We just need something to make things happier here at home. I really would rather not going weeks in between sex, but once a week passes, it is easy for 2, 3, or 4 weeks to pass.
We want kids, but .....and she is home, gotta go.I know exactly what you mean. For me and my ex, birth control was a barrier, if I didn't initiate during the safe window it would be weeks before I'd want to initiate again... I believe I remember you saying you want children (?) so vasectomy is not on your radar I guess. Other than condoms any kind of b.c. would have to fall to her, and if that is a moodkiller I hope she is willing to consider it even in dry spells so that when it gets hot there is nothing to stop you two from being spontaneous some more.
Oh crap, the magic of TAM in real-time!We want kids, but .....and she is home, gotta go.
I was wrong, it wasn't her at the time, she ended up getting home later and nothing happened. We ate dinner and then the sex talk went to trying to time it best for the chances to get pregnant. End result...no sex.Oh crap, the magic of TAM in real-time!
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Damn...I was wrong, it wasn't her at the time, she ended up getting home later and nothing happened. We ate dinner and then the sex talk went to trying to time it best for the chances to get pregnant. End result...no sex.