Is simply having a crush or infatuation with someone considered cheating?
Or is it when both people acknowledge they like each other?
Or is it when you start communicating with that person behind spouses back?
Where is the line?
I suppose this is more of a moral question....
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You have received many good answers here.
Humans married or not will always find someone they are attracted to.
It becomes a problem when you engage in any for the behaviors posted in this thread.
IMO, a person can still talk to someone they are attracted too, if they do it in public and are not hiding the relationship in any way on any level.
The Other woman began showing her interest in me by talking about sexual things. For example she talked about how she liked to have sex slow and long. She talked about the handcuffs she had on her bedpost. She talked about how thinking about sex made her wet.
My wife never talked to anyone like that. I didn't either, but when someone talked to me that way, I succumbed.
With that said, I do think that fantasizing about someone you feel an attraction to is dangerous and can lead to an affair. If you are still thinking about the person you are attracted to after you leave their presence, it's cheating, in my opinion. An attractions should be a fleeting feeling and leave when the person is out of sight.