Well there ya go. Compromise your boundaries and you've got jack-sh.I am a little afraid that I’ll agree to some terms I’m not happy with just to avoid separation
So what exactly are the boundaries you plan to lay out?
And I am in 1000% agreement with @Tdbo. If you compromise on things you don't like just to avoid separation, believe me - you WILL live to regret and resent it.
Look, I'm coming at this from the perspective of a woman. You sound somewhat weak. Women want a man who lays it on the line. Sure, that doesn't mean she won't walk if you lay out what you want in no uncertain terms, but a woman can sense when you are giving her a wide berth just so you can play the pick-me dance. She'll know. And, I assure you, she won't respect you.