My marriage has come to a crashing end. I could handle it ending if it all made sense to me. It is hard to resolve to understand, forgive, move on, or anything when the wayward partner never admits or owns up to their part of the marriage failure. My wife insists to this day that her relationship with the other guy is nothing more than a friendship, in fact he’s her best friends and she loves him as such. The more I try to talk to her about the EA every since it became known (to me) the more she states I pushed her closer towards him. Explain that LOGIC to me? I have never once gotten her to say that she did anything wrong, even after two separate attempts at marriage counseling. Has anyone else experienced this with a spouse that was in a EA? I still to this day think it’s possible that she doesn’t realize that she’s in an EA, and truly believes what little she will actually tell me. Why does my opinion on her relationship with him not count after twenty-three years plus of marriage?