Re: Any married women who wanted out because they "dont love their husband"? PM me p
Couldn't hurt. I didn't wade through all your other posts, so I apologize. Have you exposed to her family and any friends who wouldn't be assisting in this? I did see something about you saying you wouldn't so that to her mom because she would pass out? I assume the news that her daughter is a cheater would be a hard pill for her to swallow? Tell me, do you think it will be harder for her to find out that you and her daughter split because of the cheating? Or would finding out that her daughter has been cheating and you are trying to get her out of her fog be harder? My point is that, by refusing to expose to those who would be most influential and are closest to her, you are basically letting her go ahead and do it.
I can promise you that, had my husband told my mom and dad about the first one, there would not have been a second one. My parents and I are close and yes, hearing something like that would have been devastating to them. But they would have held me accountable. They would have told me to either work on my marriage or divorce. Yea, I thought about leaving him. I thought about it a lot. But no amount of waiting on me, no amount of "being nice" helped. I truly thought, at the time, that I was no longer in love with him. Perhaps MC would have helped then, but we didn't go. Fortunately, I came out of the fog and we are rebuilding.
Give the MC a shot. Is this one who also specializes in infidelity/EAs?
