My SIL found out in June that her H has been having an affair on her. They have been married 28 years and have five kids together ranging from 7 to 21. This devastated her. She thought they had a great marriage. He started the affair in May and she found out about it in June. He left his W and kids and moved in with this other girl five days after she found out what was going on. Well now we are in Oct the other girl dumped him and he asked his wife to come back home that he wants to work things out. She agreed for him to come back. He brings the other girl up allot to his wife and drives past her house to see who's car is in her driveway (he is affraid that she is seeing someone). My SIL or the kids cant get away from girl. Their son plays football with the other girls son and they are in some of the same classes in middle school and my SIL daughter is in the same college class as this other women. My SIL feels like her DH still loves this other girl and she is really upset about it. Is there any good books out there to help them both to try to keep there marriage? Or at least anything my SIL can read to help her through this hard time? My SIL really wants her marriage to work out. She is bending over backwards for him. I dont agree with her but I will support her in this desicion and try to help her out any way I can so that is why I am here asking for your help.