So my husband never takes me out on dates, EVER, and he works 7 days a week all day, he never comes home until every where in town is closed. He does not buy me flowers EVER, not for any holiday or any birthday or special occasion, he is in no way romantic at all with me, no little surprises to show me he is thinking about me or anything. He didnt get me a christmas present just this last year, and didnt do anything at all for my birthday no present no dinner no plans at all , and even mothers day was heartbreaking, he didn't get me flowers not a card or anything literally nothing. I did not get any kind of breakfast in bed or dinner , he couldn't even do the dishes or ask the kids to do them. They treated me like I was not important to them at all, I am feeling very hurt by this, and I don't think it is my kids' fault , I think he is greatly influencing them with his apparent disregard for me. I feel like this is horrible, I am wanting to raise good, respectful and loving children who are caring and thoughtful and giving but despite all my efforts he seems to be the one with more influence over them and so of course because of our marriage problems he is hateful towards me and it shows in all his actions towards me. Is it wrong of me to find this type of behavior wrong and hurtful?? He didn't even get our kids a christmas present either and disregarded them on their birthdays as well ..... it is heartbreaking to me and causes much of my frustration with him. I just don't know what to do and if I'm wrong I need to know so I can change my perspective.