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Does the fact that I had to snoop and spy to get any of this information offset anything that she's lied about.

If you're worried about how she's going to respond to your actions, then don't even bring up what you know.

If you want resolution, then her response to your actions are irrelevant. You know what you know, and you can choose to ignore it, or expose it and her.

IMO liars don't get any special treatment or kidd gloves. I'd be more pissed off that she was untruthful to me. Someone she should have more respect for, and not feel that she has to resort to lying to for fear of what I will say or do.

My anger over being lied to would trump anything she could throw at me.