I am wondering if I am too kind....I have been told repeatedly through this whole horrible situation that I am. That I am too easy on him. Is this a bad thing? As a recap, H cheated on me twice during our marraige, once was recent. He shows no remorse. He actually started the A after we started MC with a 21 year old (he's 37). Everything I have ever known is gone (I have been with him since I was 16). It's over. I have come to terms with this although I am not happy about it. During all of this, both of my parents have passed away (54 years old each). Maybe I am so lenient bc of that although I don't think so. I don't want to have a bad relationship with him not only because of our kids but because I don't want the drama and hate. He still hasn't moved out so I deal with him everyday. Don't misunderstand, he does things on a regular basis that make me soooo angry and I tell him about it but I just want to get through this without regrets. Has anyone else felt like they were being too kind? Been told by others?