My wife and I sort of have this give and take thing on jealousy. But lately, she is in more of this ' I don't give 2 ****s what you think, I'm going to do what I want ' thing going.
For instance, on facebook, we have this deal going we won't add ex's, etc. She doesn't like me adding attractive girls, I don't want her adding guys. It's not that big of a problem, but I added an old friend not too long ago and she literally freaked on me. Hey, I broke our rule, I admitted it. Though she never let it go and still was really mad at me, though I admitted guilt and deleted her.
Anyways, my problem is with this. I personally think yoga pants, or those skin tight thin pants, are really trashy and I don't want her wearing them. She's really attractive and I have problems with men staring enough as it is. Again, my personal opinion. I don't really care what other women do. Lately, regardless of the fact that it bothers me to no end, she has picked up some 'work out pants'. Slightly thicker, yet still skin tight, and she wears boy shorts under them when she works out. I can see the lines that create a visible profile of her ass. I ask her to wear some of those spanky shorts, or whatever like volleyball chicks wear, under them to take away the lines. I even said she can use my card to buy them if she wants. She yells, screams, calls me horrible nasty things, tells me she is loosing feelings do to me controlling her. This argument stems to other arguments. I simply want her to change under wear or wear regular sweat pants like she did for years. But she is adament on being trashy, though I ask her nicely not too.
Am I asking too much? I don't yell at her, call her a *****, or nasty names. But simply ask her nicely to change, because it bothers me. She refuses to compromise.
Am I being too crazy?
For instance, on facebook, we have this deal going we won't add ex's, etc. She doesn't like me adding attractive girls, I don't want her adding guys. It's not that big of a problem, but I added an old friend not too long ago and she literally freaked on me. Hey, I broke our rule, I admitted it. Though she never let it go and still was really mad at me, though I admitted guilt and deleted her.
Anyways, my problem is with this. I personally think yoga pants, or those skin tight thin pants, are really trashy and I don't want her wearing them. She's really attractive and I have problems with men staring enough as it is. Again, my personal opinion. I don't really care what other women do. Lately, regardless of the fact that it bothers me to no end, she has picked up some 'work out pants'. Slightly thicker, yet still skin tight, and she wears boy shorts under them when she works out. I can see the lines that create a visible profile of her ass. I ask her to wear some of those spanky shorts, or whatever like volleyball chicks wear, under them to take away the lines. I even said she can use my card to buy them if she wants. She yells, screams, calls me horrible nasty things, tells me she is loosing feelings do to me controlling her. This argument stems to other arguments. I simply want her to change under wear or wear regular sweat pants like she did for years. But she is adament on being trashy, though I ask her nicely not too.
Am I asking too much? I don't yell at her, call her a *****, or nasty names. But simply ask her nicely to change, because it bothers me. She refuses to compromise.
Am I being too crazy?
