Actually I didn't know much about alcoholism since I'd never dated one before and his mom and I talked at length about it and she was adamant it was a label he'd been given by his very overbearing ex wife years ago.You knew he was an alcoholic before you married him. You had to know that the possibility of really sucky times was more likely to happen than not. You said that your sex life was amazing in the beginning and he was sober at that time. So he is very capable of this. How far sober was he at the point of time that you met? Was he on the same meds at that time? Meds can be a real bear on the libido.
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When we met and married he didn't drink but was very very affectionate. Then he started to drink casually and it was fine... Until it wasn't months later and I realized that he actually had a real problem. Then when he quit, sex then went with it.
So.... This is a new thing for me, understanding alcoholism and it's affects. Sigh.
I'm working to understand but I just get really bummed about the intimacy suddenly screeching to a halt 😭