My husband and I have been married for 4 years. He is a great guy and he loves me very much. The catch is that he is ultra sensitive. He always told me that it’s history of his life to be ignored and disrespected.
He says he is told that someone told him the room gets smaller when he enters. He says what ever in his life got was broken. Like a toy he got, or his family (he was adopted and he always felt like an outsider but not because he was adopted. He’s sister is also adopted but she was never treated the same way as him. He says his opinions never mattered and the parents specially his dad was and is disappointed in him.
It seems like he is over it and when he talks about it he is not angry and he is like accepting it and not blaming him self for his dad’s attitude.
My problem with him is that I feel like he is over ultra sensitive. I feel like the amount and the degree of respect he requires is a little too much. Therefore I am here to ask about your opinion.
My car is worth about $200. The windshield has some water stain on it, but it’s not on driver side and it dose not bother me. He told me to find out how much it was too replace it. First I had to call insurance and find out if I was covered. I knew I wasn’t but he asked me to call to make sure. Then he asked me to call around and ask how much to replace it.
After a whole lot of research I told him 179 the cheapest. He said go for it and I said no. I didn’t want to spend that much on my car. Besides it was not bothering me (still isn’t).
Couple months later when he was in a serious stage he said I don’t have respect for him. I ignored his wish and just did what I wanted to do without paying attention to his wish.
Episodes like this happen a little too often. Now he is threatening me by moving out if I don’t start showing him some respect.
Am I stubborn or he is too sensitive? Can’t I have a saying about my car and our money?
He says if I have a valid reason he would respect but I think I do. I don’t want to spend money on my car!
He says he is told that someone told him the room gets smaller when he enters. He says what ever in his life got was broken. Like a toy he got, or his family (he was adopted and he always felt like an outsider but not because he was adopted. He’s sister is also adopted but she was never treated the same way as him. He says his opinions never mattered and the parents specially his dad was and is disappointed in him.
It seems like he is over it and when he talks about it he is not angry and he is like accepting it and not blaming him self for his dad’s attitude.
My problem with him is that I feel like he is over ultra sensitive. I feel like the amount and the degree of respect he requires is a little too much. Therefore I am here to ask about your opinion.
My car is worth about $200. The windshield has some water stain on it, but it’s not on driver side and it dose not bother me. He told me to find out how much it was too replace it. First I had to call insurance and find out if I was covered. I knew I wasn’t but he asked me to call to make sure. Then he asked me to call around and ask how much to replace it.
After a whole lot of research I told him 179 the cheapest. He said go for it and I said no. I didn’t want to spend that much on my car. Besides it was not bothering me (still isn’t).
Couple months later when he was in a serious stage he said I don’t have respect for him. I ignored his wish and just did what I wanted to do without paying attention to his wish.
Episodes like this happen a little too often. Now he is threatening me by moving out if I don’t start showing him some respect.
Am I stubborn or he is too sensitive? Can’t I have a saying about my car and our money?
He says if I have a valid reason he would respect but I think I do. I don’t want to spend money on my car!