Things have not been good between my H and I for sometime, yesterday we agreed to a separation. I asked several questions therapuetic separation, different bank accounts, do we see other people, do we completly ignore one another or talk once a week, he couldnt answer any of these questions. I got a sick feeling in my stomach and checked his phone compared to the online bill. There are A LOT of texts to the same girl on the bill, but all are deleted from the phone. He doesnt know I know this. I checked FB, email, history on the computer, etc. There arent even phone calls, only texts. Am I being paranoid because we are about to be separated, why would he delete texts from only one person if there is nothing to hide?