Not to be mean, but if he cheated to be with you, why on earth would you think he will not cheat on you? Do you think you are extra super special? Or that his ex deserved it?
Here is a heartfelt letter that a skunk once wrote to a home owner:-I never looked at it that way...I dont think that I am extra super special or that she deserved it.Ive just tried to trust him in what he has told me, he said that he knows that he crossed the line with her and that that ruined their relationship then he went onto say that he would never do that to me.
You can't change someone into the person you WANT them to be. You have to accept them for who they are.Thanks Jellybeans, youve summed it all up in a nutshell. Ive always thought of him as having loads of potential. Hes smart, attractive, funny, is a great cook, compliments me, is amazing in bed and is popular. At the beginning he was very caring and supportive but ive only recently come to terms with the fact that the way he is now is the way he will be until HE gets help. If only i could fast forward life to next year and not have to deal with all of these emotions that come with losing someone ;(