Hi. I have been separated for two months and I feel bipolar at times; I think that's normal in these cases...? Sometimes I'm fine, but at times I just want to call him and tell him to stop this, and come home! I feel that he still has feelings for me (we have been married for ten years), but I'm afraid that time will just drive us further apart. After the first three weeks into our separation, he came home and told me that he loved me, didn't want to lose me, and wanted to start over...two days later he did a 180. Now he tells me that I deserve better, because he hasn't been the greatest husband. He's living with a relative and isn't acting foolish. I don't want to give up because we have been through thick and thin. However, he never wants to talk and I'm tired of trying, but I feel like this can't be it. We have talked about divorce and he's told me he doesn't want to come home, but I do feel like he's putting up a wall to push me away. He doesn't seem happy. He doesn't laugh like he used to and neither do I...our kids miss him sooo much. He comes over frequently to work around the house. What to do? Do I just give him more time? Should I show him how much I still love him? I hate acting needy because that's not me...but it's tough.