Me and my wife dated a year before we were married. Sex was great, she was great, everything was great until marriage. We might have rushed into marriage because i was moving across the country and in order for her to come with me we had to be married. (military) :smthumbup: So here we are Married and in love in the beautiful state of California at the age of 20 with great plans and great financial situation. Part of the plan was for her to get a part time job and finish her degree which she was already 2 years into. Unfortunately 2 months passed and she decided she didn't want to finish her degree, and turned down jobs because she didn't want to work weekends. Now that was fine and all and money was still fine me working 60+ hours a week and weekend hours coming home to find her not moving from the couch and never applying to jobs saying no ones hiring. About 4 months passed and our Car was having some trouble so her idea was to get a new one, so we did and our finances got a little tight, but we were still doing fine. I started mentioning getting a job and she said no ones was hiring and she's been trying her hardest. (2 applications in 1 month saying she refuses to work weekend hours) So after bugging her about getting a job she now "Magically" became pregnant after being on birth control for 4 years and cannot possibly get a job because now she is pregnant. We are not financially stable for a kid and i didn't even want one yet. Everything i do is bad and I've had to take up a 2nd job.. yes on top of my 60+ hour a week military job and she still complains i don't care for this family because i'm never home.. when i can't because im working so hard to keep us afloat. Not to mention i come home at 6pm (leaving to work at 5:30am) and go straight to working again.. while she's on the couch... same as every day.. watching tv and complaining im never home enough.. Anyone have any ideas im about to just let her move back with her family but i've come to accept my baby im going to be having next year.