I don’t really know where to start I guess I am looking for advice on weather I am imagining things and should just forget it or if these are real scenarios in which my husband is being unfaithful to me.
I guess I should begin at the beginning I have been with my husband for 11 years married 5 and have 4 children. I am 26 years old.
After the birth of our third child, I was confronted by a woman who was suppose to be a good friend of mine, saying that she was sleeping with my husband. She confronted him and myself the same time so we were both there, he went into a rage and called her every name in the book saying she was a lier a **** and many more choice things and that I was stupid for believing her. But to recap the first night in question I caught him in 2 different lies in which he always changed the story and had answers for.
He swears if he ever did anything like that he would tell me, not hide it because if he wanted anyone else then he would say.
Everything was fine until recently he started spending every weekend away, and refuses to stay home with his family on the weekends.
One night when he thought I was asleep he pulled into our driveway with another woman in the car although he swears nothing happened. (This was the second time this happened)
There have many incidents in between but the most recent is a couple weekends ago he was heading to a friends for a hour he said I gets a call at 2 am saying he is at a club, and that the club closes at 3. My husband shows home at 6 am, and says his buddy gave him a ride home when the club closed. (we live 10 min from the club) it did not take him 3 hours to get home. I asked this friend the next night what time he brought him home, and his friend looked at me dumbfounded and said I didn’t even see him, turns out he got a ride and went to a different town with a girl (I actually heard it was a carload of girls) So I confronted him about this he said I did get a ride home with him, If a girl brought me home id tell you.
So again the next night someone told me how he got home I confronted him again because I was talking to the woman who he got a ride with and lo and behold he changed his story and oh yes he says I remember I did get a ride so far with her. Still dosent explain 3 hours to get home. Every weekend he gets home 6 and 630 in the morning at least one night of the weekend if not 2 of them.
I also asked him recently during a fight if he would stop going out drinking and spend more time with us on the weekend and he said Im not giving up my drinks on the weekend for no one.
Everytime I confront him about something I heard, and suspect he blows up at me freaking right out telling saying unless you see it with your eyes don’t believe it. Then he threatens to leave.
Am I paranoid? Or is he cheating
I guess I should begin at the beginning I have been with my husband for 11 years married 5 and have 4 children. I am 26 years old.
After the birth of our third child, I was confronted by a woman who was suppose to be a good friend of mine, saying that she was sleeping with my husband. She confronted him and myself the same time so we were both there, he went into a rage and called her every name in the book saying she was a lier a **** and many more choice things and that I was stupid for believing her. But to recap the first night in question I caught him in 2 different lies in which he always changed the story and had answers for.
He swears if he ever did anything like that he would tell me, not hide it because if he wanted anyone else then he would say.
Everything was fine until recently he started spending every weekend away, and refuses to stay home with his family on the weekends.
One night when he thought I was asleep he pulled into our driveway with another woman in the car although he swears nothing happened. (This was the second time this happened)
There have many incidents in between but the most recent is a couple weekends ago he was heading to a friends for a hour he said I gets a call at 2 am saying he is at a club, and that the club closes at 3. My husband shows home at 6 am, and says his buddy gave him a ride home when the club closed. (we live 10 min from the club) it did not take him 3 hours to get home. I asked this friend the next night what time he brought him home, and his friend looked at me dumbfounded and said I didn’t even see him, turns out he got a ride and went to a different town with a girl (I actually heard it was a carload of girls) So I confronted him about this he said I did get a ride home with him, If a girl brought me home id tell you.
So again the next night someone told me how he got home I confronted him again because I was talking to the woman who he got a ride with and lo and behold he changed his story and oh yes he says I remember I did get a ride so far with her. Still dosent explain 3 hours to get home. Every weekend he gets home 6 and 630 in the morning at least one night of the weekend if not 2 of them.
I also asked him recently during a fight if he would stop going out drinking and spend more time with us on the weekend and he said Im not giving up my drinks on the weekend for no one.
Everytime I confront him about something I heard, and suspect he blows up at me freaking right out telling saying unless you see it with your eyes don’t believe it. Then he threatens to leave.
Am I paranoid? Or is he cheating