My wife just recently packed up everything and left me, we are both 21 and we live with my grandparents. We are both full time students and finals just passed. She had finals the day after she left me. I talked to her recently and she yelled at me over the phone. I would prefer for us to meet in person. In my mind right now i am trying to take this as good as i can, and i figured just going about this as if she never left, i make dinner for 2, i say good morning to her side of the bed, i text her and email her. Am i losing my mind or something? I know i should give her space and time but i am not sure what i can do because since i do not have an answer of whether she wants a divorce or not i can not do anything. I want to get a job but i do not know what is going to happen. Right now i am taking things day by day and i havent heard from her in a few days. I really need help and i wont be able to see my counselor for a few weeks til the holidays are done. I do not want to spend Christmas without my wife it would be devastating for me to go through that. Advice is greatly appreciated and i am desperate for help.