Just past a year to the day of D my H attempted to cheat with a colleague, I'm sitting here waiting for him to come home, or message me.
He's been at a conference in our home town, wisely said he wouldn't stay over in the hotel as other colleagues are doing.
I know he's had a stressful day, up talking in front of hundreds which he hates, and under normal circumstances would understand he would want to let his hair down afterward. But these are not normal circumstances.
He said he would be home after the meal which was 3 hours ago. I messaged him 2 hours ago and he hasn't even read that message, let alone replied to it.
I'm trying to be cool and rational but i'm starting to get annoyed that he hasn't looked at his phone. he is meant to be making things right.
I figure situations such as these can help or hinder our R, depending on how he conducts himself. If he'd stayed for the meal and come home, great....if he has meal and starts to get comfortable and starts to drink then he isn't coming home, or he'll need a taxi....none of which was the plan.
Why do I feel let down?...and why can he not use these situations to help me heal and to let me know he's thinking about how i might be feeling and come home as soon as possible.
Next week he has to go away over night, so this isn't going well!
Whats the chances his phone is out of battery?
Am i being irrational under the circumstances?
He's been at a conference in our home town, wisely said he wouldn't stay over in the hotel as other colleagues are doing.
I know he's had a stressful day, up talking in front of hundreds which he hates, and under normal circumstances would understand he would want to let his hair down afterward. But these are not normal circumstances.
He said he would be home after the meal which was 3 hours ago. I messaged him 2 hours ago and he hasn't even read that message, let alone replied to it.
I'm trying to be cool and rational but i'm starting to get annoyed that he hasn't looked at his phone. he is meant to be making things right.
I figure situations such as these can help or hinder our R, depending on how he conducts himself. If he'd stayed for the meal and come home, great....if he has meal and starts to get comfortable and starts to drink then he isn't coming home, or he'll need a taxi....none of which was the plan.
Why do I feel let down?...and why can he not use these situations to help me heal and to let me know he's thinking about how i might be feeling and come home as soon as possible.
Next week he has to go away over night, so this isn't going well!
Whats the chances his phone is out of battery?
Am i being irrational under the circumstances?