I have begged my husband to love me (literally) all he wanted was sex . No interaction with me except sex. No dates ,no touching me gently , no telling me I'm important to him , no making sure I didn't get overwhelmed with the kids , nothing .... unless I got upset and overwhelmed. I made a deadline of a year for him to choose to love me like I deserve or im leaving the marriage. Here we are a year later and he said he never loved me and that he used me for sex 😣 . 12 years of feeling isolated ,alone and depressed. He financially provided for us and I have been a stay at home mom for 10 years . We still sleep in the same bed. He isnt being ugly and mean so I feel bad for giving him the boot . Is it asking too much to be loved and touched other than just when he wants sex ? Am I making a mistake ending 12 years of marriage over not feeling loved ?