Regardless of what you find out, eventually your inability to trust him will cause problems between you. If seems it might be time that you examine your reasons for using the software.Am I a bad person for using software that tracks all activity? I'm using it secretly to learn if my spouse is having an affair. So far there have been some very sexual emails and chats exchanged between my spouse and another, but I don't know what to do with the information. If I confront my spouse then I have to reveal my secret software. Would this be cause for a divorce due to the whole lack of trust thing?