YesWhy does this matter so much to YOU? This isn't life.
Seriously, for a whole horde of posters....WHY is what other people do about THEIR infidelity situations so very vital;ly important to YOU? If you still have stuff to work through regarding your own situations, work on that. It's just plain creepy and unhealthy to use strangers to get satisfaction the way a dad who blew out his knee pushes his kid to play football.