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my wife and i are in a "rekindling" phase in our marriage of 30 years due to past issues from me. example- not being there for her as i should have been .i love this woman dearly and overtime i was too stupid to realize that she was falling further away from me and our relationship.she had decided herself to leave but she never left the home ,it was that close.my question or comment is-last night i tried to start our intimacy again it went very well to a point lets say we were like at a solid 2nd base .so just when i thought third base was well insight she said to me that she didnt want to have sex as -admittedly- we used sex as a cure for problems throughout our relationship. so i understood and respected her wishes.but i guess being an aroused guy i tried sweet talking her-it was working-BUT then i said something i dont know if i was jokng or what. this is what i said. i dont just want to have sex with you that i wanted to make love to you but if u just want to have sex thats ok too. she was hurt by this statement .was i wrong with this? looking for some comments
ps i meant it as a joke
ps i meant it as a joke